I have an 11 year old son who is the most recoil shy person I have ever seen. He has started filling out and getting somewhat heavier but he still pretty much refuses to shoot shotguns. I know this is Shooting world but maybe someone can help me out. He is shooting a youth model 20ga. and it is just a little long for him but not much. While he is very recoil shy with shotguns, rifles don't seem to bother him. I am at my wits end with this child. What can I do to help him out?