I have not used either, but any Remington 700 will work fine. I have a BDL and love it. I would just pick one according to the features you like because both of them will give you a life time of service.
...Basically what wwb said. I think you can't go wrong with either. Pick based on features that you like...or need. If you really can't decide - just get both. Tell your significant other it's o.k.; your purchase was approved by some guy on ShootingWorld.